Thursday, December 26, 2013

Tonight's Radio Show,,, Dealing with Race Realtions

Tonight we caught up on the past week after taking last week off. The main topic tonight was;

"Race Relations" 

"I thought we had a good show for the last of the year." K. L. 
"Reality and Relationships" 
Thursday, December, 26, 2013
If you are interested in being a guest on our show please send email request and media kit /bio to with "Guest Request" in subject area,,, If you are pitching a product we require you send us a sample or copy (book or CD) first to be reviewed. Address will be provided once media kit and bio are received.  If we are interested and willing to promote your material we will set up a interview date. 
We are a faith based show but we are open to give artist the freedom to discuss their views and products. 

Tuesday, December 17, 2013

Married Couple Sleeping Separately

As a little girl one of my favorite television shows was "I Love Lucy". I watched every weekend, faithfully. Now as an adult, if I happen upon the show-channel surfing-it grabs my attention. One of the things I found interesting and a bit confusing, when I was younger, is the idea of married couples sleeping in separate beds. After all my parents shared a bed and that's what I thought all married couples did. To my surprise, I've learned for various reasons plenty of married couples sleep in separate beds and in some cases separate rooms. According to new research from Toronto's Ryerson University, 30 to 40 percent of couples sleep apart at night. Well, at seven months pregnant you can imagine that it's getting a little bit more difficult to get around as well as sleeping comfortably is close to non-existent. A couple of months ago I purchased a full body maternity pillow by Boppy and it helped a lot to relieve lower back aching. About a month ago I began developing a soreness in my pelvic area which I've read is usually diagnosed as Symphasis Pelvic Disorder (SPD) which can be debilitating in some cases. When I mentioned it to my Obstetrician she confirmed that it tends to get worse during the progression of the pregnancy and there was nothing much I could do about it. This was a great disappointment because I had committed to walking each day in order to get as much exercise as I could for my and the baby's health. As I had been warned, the aching in my pelvis now developed into a pain that changed my style and pace of walking dramatically. The pain made me not want to walk at all. If KL could carry me from room to room and from destination to destination I would surely welcome it. Recently, when KL and I were at home, I fell asleep in my favorite spot-the chaise next to the window- while he watched television. With a big cushiony pillow and three smaller accent pillows I can prop myself up and place the pillows in just the right places. I napped for a few hours. When I woke, of course like all women in my condition, I had to make a visit to the royal throne. Without thinking, I stood up walked to the bathroom and came back. I stopped and looked at KL and told him, "I don't have any pain." I didn't have any pain for the rest of the day. The days to follow I slept in our bed and woke up every morning very sore, stiff, and barely able to move. Then on occasion I'd take a nap on the chaise and wake up without pain and easier to move. A light bulb went on. Our bed, chairs, and even love seat are too firm and sitting in them for any extended amount of time caused the SPD in my pelvis to flare up. Last night, While KL worked on his laptop I fell asleep in the chaise watching television. Before heading to our bedroom KL asked if I wanted to stay there or come to bed. I told him I would stay on the chaise. Again I woke up this morning without pain. KL woke up assuming I would come to bed in the middle of the night and was surprised to find me still sleeping on the chaise. He joked he felt abandoned by me and our dog, Storm(who normally sleeps on the foot of our bed every night). Storm had taken a spot next to me and was sleeping comfortably. KL asked, "So, you guys are going to sleep in the living room now." I responded, "Only for the next three months."

Saturday, October 26, 2013

The Sonogram... From the Wife's 'Point of View"

Some time ago I had come to the conclusion that KL and I would not have a child of our own. It came with a lot of heartache and tears, but I resolved that maybe God had other plans for us. After all, it had been seven years since we lost a baby by miscarriage and were now considered advanced in age and possibly facing infertility. 
It’s been four months since KL and I learned we are expecting our first child and four days since learning we’re having a little girl. It all still seemed so surreal to me until the day I saw her playing with her hands on the ultrasound monitor.

Unlike KL, who had as much difficulty as if he were trying to decipher a Rorschach test, I could now see she has the form of a real baby; not just a blurb on the screen. I could count her fingers and toes. I could see her little legs, and before the nurse announced I could tell she is a she. 

Prior to the ultrasound I wasn't sure if the occasional poking inside was in fact her movements. Now, I know they are. She must have been annoyed by the prodding of the wand because the doctor said she wouldn't stay still in order for her to capture all the images needed to complete the anatomy scan. I could actually feel her moving around inside during the process. Now, what used to be a flutter once a day has turned into all day entertainment of somersaults in my belly; a sensation I’m still getting used to.

I think about what it will feel like to hold our daughter for the first time. I can’t wait to give her kisses and hugs and never want to put her down. I look forward to hearing her tiny cries, baby cooing, messy diapers, and my lack of sleep.

God knows how grateful I am for this blessing. I haven’t stopped smiling; even through tears.

Tiffany Braxton Belvin

If you missed our announcement of our baby girl on our weekly radio show "Reality and Relationship Every Thursday 8-10 pm est.

Here is what you missed. 

10/24/2013 The Making Marriage Cool Again Seminar and Baby Announcement

Tuesday, October 22, 2013

Today's Sonogram

Forgot how great naps were, needed one today

Seeing the sonogram of our baby today brought so many emotions to the forefront. I was excited for my wife and myself. I was even more excited to learn about the gender of the baby, which was??? (Tune into our Thursday radio show to learn for yourself. LOL 8-10pm). I found myself, thanking the Lord for answering our prayers, knowing how much Tiff and I prayed after losing our first child 7 years ago. There was the excitement of how the family was going to react with the news.

As the thoughts rolled the next to show up were the emotions of sadness; I found myself wishing my grandmother was here so I could share this news with her. Sitting with her and talking about her prayers for her family being answered once again. She always wanted the best for her family before herself. I felt sad for my wife, because I knew her mother was excited about being a grandmother for the first time. Plus my wife would get so enamored with the idea of her mother's reaction to the pregnancy.
It was then onto the feeling of determination. The thoughts hit me hard; I have to be more of a protector for this child and my wife. The blessing was given and now I have the responsibility of making sure both are cared for no matter what the cost to myself. All my business ventures have to be on point. Risk vs Rewards have to be weighed from the door. I have to make sure my books, my writing, peaking and all business ventures are thought provoking and honor the Lord, if I am going to care for this family. My body has to change and healthier is one of the goals to make sure I am here for as long as I can be for all the members of my family not just the baby. 

The next feeling was remorse. I thought about some of my other children, who for the reasons I mentioned in my book "From From Gigolo to Jesus", placed me outside the loop in their lives for different amounts of time. In turn it cause me to missed this point in their lives. Not all of my children but enough to touch my heart strings. I thought about how my ungodly actions from when I didn't know the Lord allowed me to create children who I weren't there for. Actions which didn't allow me to be there with them or their mothers during this process of the pregnancy. 

I guess that is why I needed the nap this afternoon when I got home. The one thing I do know is the Lord allows you to learn from your experiences so when its time to work from his grace you'll pull from what you once were. I thank the Lord for all the negatives which once filled my life for now they allow me to be the man, father, author, businessman, teacher and husband I think he could be proud of. 

Either way the real work started the minute I said "Lord forgive me for my sins and I accept your son Jesus Christ as my Lord and savior". I am going to end on that fact and go hard each day to make a difference so folks can see the God I serve in my actions.

Saturday, October 19, 2013

Our radio shows of the last two weeks on GeeQue Palace Radio

Each week Tiff and I do our best to bring interesting radio to the airwaves. Its our way of giving back some of what the Lord has given us. Reality and Relationships airs each Thursday from 8-10 pm on GeeQue Palace Radio   

We ask that you listen the shows and pass on the links and information to others. This is our ministry and our movement to make relationships and marriages cool again. Leave a message to tell us what you thought of the show. If you would to be a guess you leave us a message at (347) 709-7696

October 17, We did part of one of popular seminar "Making Marriage Cool Again" the handbook will be ready in 2014. Check out part part 1.. You can listen to part two on 10/24/13

The previous week 10/10/2013 we covered "Etiquette" A Lost Art. Tiffany enjoyed this subject.. I had to warm up to it.

Remember to check out and like our Making Marriage Cool Again Facebook page to keep up on the updates of "Baby Belvin" our expected bundle of joy. 

Saturday, October 5, 2013

This week's radio show "Reality and Relationships" on GeeQue Palace Radio

Each week, Tiff and I do what we can to present the work with the our take on how to fix and address the problems in relationship into today's society. We are on every Thursday night from 8pm - 10pm on GeeQue Palace Radio.

This week we discussed a few topics, one of the main topics was; If your significant others best friend made a pass at you. Would you tell your significant other of the advance?

Make sure you tune in each week. Please share our information with others. If they miss the show the who will be posted  on this site as well as Make sure your friends do the same thing. By listening to the show our totals increase and this allows the radio station to conduct business with other outlets.

What a week.. The memorial was great.

It has been an incredible week. As many of you know we had the memorial for Tiff's mother. 

We wanted to have a home going celebration done the right way. We told everyone who attended this is party so no sad faces. So after the dedication we are going to party as if Tiff's mother, Ina, was still with us. Folks did what we asked and we had a great day. 

Here is a link to the pictures of the day's events. The photos were taken by Michelle Wild of MWild Potography Please tell her K. L. and Tiffany referred you. 

One of the highlights of the day was Tiff's father, Alfred, showing everyone his unique dance moves. 
I had to put this video together. 

The DJ was a friend of mine,, DJ Scratch and Big Brother Max... If you need them for your next party please reach out to my brother Robert Perry and inquire about your event. 

We also had the event catered by another friend of mine, Jahvel Frasor. Who is an incredible young chef. His company Trust in Catering did a great job with the fixings. You can check them out on their recent visit to NY radio station Hot 97... You see the food is no joke!!!

Its always tough to say good bye,, but to see my wife as calm as she was. I know we did the right thing for her mother's memory. 

Thursday, September 26, 2013

Our return to the air after dealing with personal losses.

Hey family. After dealing with the sudden and tragic death of Tiff's mother a few weeks back. We made our way back to the air waves. It was long over due and needed.

We have some low moments and high points but getting things back to normal works for us.

If you are interested in coming to Tiff's mother memorial it will be held at the Harvest Room 90-40 160th street off of Jamaica ave, Queens, NY 12pm - 4 pm EST. We will have food and music. This is a celebration not a funeral.

If you missed us tonight here is tonight's archived show.. We enjoyed the time on the air. Make sure you tell a friend to listen in and share this page with others. Also please make sure you tune into to our show each Thursday 8-10pm est on "Reality and Relationships"


Thursday, August 22, 2013

If you missed our recent radio shows, check out "Reality and Relationships"

Each week on Thursday nights 8 -10pm est, my wife, Tiffany and I work very hard to bring interesting topics to the mic so folks can learn something from us each week. 
GeeQue Palace Radio has given us a home and we appreciate the venue. Enjoy the shows,, Don't forget to leave a comment on the shows..

Also make sure you stop by our Making Marriage Cool Again Facebook page to Like and follow what's going on with the Tiff and the Baby!!! 

August 22nd "Tiff and I talk about our past situations with her Father and me cheating... LOL Enjoy!


August 15th. We discussed Can your significant other have friends if they aren't friends with you?


Tuesday, July 30, 2013

Come join us and follow all the updates on the Baby!!!.

All Baby Belvin updates will be
posted on Making Marriage Cool Again FaceBook page.  

Simply "LIKE" our page and get the latest news. Expected due date, girl or boy, sonograms, belly pics, etc it will all be there.

Thursday, July 18, 2013

Back on the air after a 2 week hiatus.. Talking about the Baby and the Trayvon Martin Case.

"Reality and Relationships" 

Every Thursday 8-10pm on GeeQue Palace Radio 

(Great Radio 6 Days a Week)

Check out our return to radio after a two week hiatus and the death of my grandmother. 

We discuss the announcement of our new baby and the Trayvon Martin Case. 

Please make sure you tell a friend to listen live or stop by here or to hear the archives.

Listen to internet radio with RICH MONEY on BlogTalkRadio

Saturday, June 29, 2013


Come Join the Founders of "Bravin Publishing" and the "Making Marriage Cool Again" movement as we work on our health. We decided we needed to start walking again. 
We are asking everyone to come our and join us in the evenings 6:30 to 7:30pm at Baisley Pond Park. We will meet on South Baisley Blv. and North Conduit side of the park, across from the hotel. We are asking couples, singles, or anyone to come and walk for an hour... You walk at your own pace, but know someone is out there to support your efforts. If you want to as a group that is cool too. This is about personal health more than anything else.
As part of our Making Marriage Cool Again project we would like to see as many folks as possible come out to work on their health. We would like to take some pictures to help motivate others. We look forward to meeting all of you and possibly interview a few of you to be placed you on our and to maybe be on our radio show "Reality and Relationships" Let's get started and have some fun. We will get started Monday 7/8/2013 in time to get that 4th of July weight off.. If you need more info send Tiff or me a message to our inbox or to

Friday, June 28, 2013

Our Two Latest Interviews on Reality and Relationships, every Thursday 8-10 on GeeQue Palace Radio

"Reality and Relationships" 

Every Thursday 8-10pm on GeeQue Palace Radio (Great Radio 6 Days a Week)

Check out our past two interviews with 

Follow her on Twitter @terrylebony 

6/7/2013 Shawand McKenzie, Actress. She has been seen "Take The Lead" with actor Antonio Banderas, MTV's Total Request Live and various other films. 

Follow her on Twitter  @ShaLoveBK80 

Remember to pass on the information about our show to your friends and family. 
We need your support. 

Also make sure you come by Tiff and My website to support our publishing efforts. Independent Publishing need the support of the people.. Our titles are designed to be enjoyed by everyone. 

Check out Bravin Publishing

Thursday, June 13, 2013

Check out our weekly radio show "Reality and Relationships" 6/6 and 6/13

Each week Tiff and I try to bring our own unique spin on relationship on our weekly radio show 

"Reality and Relationships" 

Check out our past two weeks shows we spoke on

6/6/2013 "What to do before and after losing a love one" 

6/13/2013 "Our Interview of "Damien "FaithWalker" Brown"

Check the show out and let us know what
you think. 
Remember you can leave a message on our Relationship hotline at 
(347) 709-7696

Thursday, May 30, 2013

Tonight we discuss "The Age of Sexual Consent" on "Reality and Relationships"

Each week Tiff and I try to bring our own unique spin on relationship on our weekly radio show 

"Reality and Relationships" 

This week we decided to speak on a 

"The Age of Sexual Consent"

Check the show out and let us know what you think. Remember you can leave a message on our Relationship hotline at (347) 709-7696

Don't forget to check our the show on Thursday's 8-10 pm and tell friends and family to join us. You can listen from the site or on the day of the show you can listen in from your phone from 646 200 3838.
If you're interested in being interviewed on our show. Send us a email request to or leave us a voice mail message at (347) 709-7696

Did you miss the May 16th show. "Reality and Relationships" Hmmmmm Time to talk about SEX,,,

Each week Tiff and I try to bring our own unique spin on relationship on our weekly radio show "Reality and Relationships" 

This we decided to speak on a fan favorite,, Sex in relationships!!! Check the show out and let us know what you think. Remember you can leave a message on our Relationship hotline at (347) 709-7696

Don't forget to check our the show on Thursday's 8-10 pm and tell friends and family to join us. You can listen from the site or on the day of the show you can listen in from your phone from 646 200 3838.
If you're interested in being interviewed on our show. Send us a email request to or leave us a voice mail message at (347) 709-7696

Join our FB pages Making Marriage Cool Again, KL Belvin, Bravin Publishing and Author Tiffany Braxton Belvin 

On Twitter: @AuthorKLBelvin and @BravinBooks

Tuesday, May 14, 2013

Don't Play Hide The Booty,, From the upcoming "Making Marriage Cool Again" handbook

Making Marriage Cool Again: "Don't Play Hide The Booty"..
Remember in a relationships rough times and arguments are going to happen. Never use withholding lovemaking as a tool to tilt things in your favor. Lovemaking is an expressing of the love and compassion you have for each other. Remember lovemaking heals after a disagreements. Keep this tip tucked away and save it for that day things are turned upside down and you find yourself about to go down this path. 

Stay tuned for other tips from our upcoming handbook "Making Marriage Cool Again" from Bravin Publishing

"Reality and Relationships" Radio Show, May 9th "Dealing with Bullying"

If you missed our most recent radio shows of "Reality and Relationships" On GeeQue Palace Radio. There are shows on 6 nights a week. Check our show out on Thursday's 8-10 pm and all the other shows at If you're interested in being interviewed on our show. Send us a email request to or leave us a voice mail message at (347) 709-7696

Last week Tiff and I tackled the subject of "Bullying" Something which seems to effect those in school now and those who live with the memories of being bullied. Enjoy. Please leave a comment or call our hotline to let us know what you think. 

Sunday, May 5, 2013

If you missed our past shows. 4/25 and 5/2... Enjoy.

If you missed our most recent radio shows of "Reality and Relationships" On GeeQue Palace Radio. There are shows on 6 nights a week. Check our show out on Thursday's 8-10 pm and all the other shows at If you're interested in being interviewed on our show. Send us a email request to or leave us a voice mail message at (347) 709-7696

April 25, we talked about 

"Child Support, The things you should know"

May 2, we covered "How to deal with Negative Work Relationships"

Sunday, April 21, 2013

"Reality and Relationship" Every Thursday 8-10pm on GeeQue Radio.

Every Thursday at or via phone 646 200 3838 you can listen to the wife and I do our best to tackle relationships from various points of view. Its our way of giving back using our marriage as an example of what can happen if you work for it. We cover all types of relationships from romantic, parental, social and more. Enjoy the listen. If you need to reach out leave us a comment her or come by our Facebook page. or via email at


April 18th,, Show on "Baggage"

April 11th   April 4th   March 28th    March 21st
      March 14th
       March 7th   Feb 28st
        Our Debut Show Feb 21st .  

Wednesday, April 3, 2013

I need your help to get Tiff to ATL

God Bless everyone. I thank you for coming by our Marriage Blog.

 I need Your Help. I am going to do something I know my wife Tiffany Braxton Belvin is not going to like but I am saying I am sorry up front.
As many of you know she is representing the state of New York in the Miss American Beauties Plus Pageant. 

In 21 days she is set to head to ATL to do her best at winning the title. Last year she was the NY representative and because of my personal circumstances she wasn't able to go. She helped me while I was on personal leave from teaching. I know she was hurt by not be able to make it but she wanted to hold things down. It hurt me to not be able to change that fact.

Well it looks as if some personal and business problems of her own has created a problem with her going to the pageant. As much as she doesn't want me to say or do anything outside of our home, I love her to much not to try what I can to help her with her dreams. I love her too much to see her sadden by something I know she wants badly which is just outside her reach.

This is where I need the help of everyone on my page all 3800+ on my page and the 2000+ on hers. I need everyone If you can to give $1 or $2 or any amount you're OK with to help me raise enough money in 20 days to sent my wife to ATL for this pageant. I am sorry if this sounds crazy or even disrespectful, I am doing what I can at school and with Bravin Publishing to raise whatever possible to get her to the pageant. I humbly ask everyone for help and as well as pray for us to pull this off. Tiff is not one to ask anyone for anything and I too can be strong willed but this request is not for me.

I have a donation link here on our Making Marriage Cool Again page in the upper left hand corner of the page.  I am going to use it since I didn't set one up just for this situation. Please pray for us. I am going to make this happen for my wife in whatever way I can. So again I ask please pray for us, I am sure if its for her to do the Lord will make a way.

God Bless you all

Thursday, February 28, 2013

Feb. 28 Our latest show. "Romance In The Work Place?"

This and I love what we do as radio show host. We do our weekly show on all types of relationships. From GeeQuee Palace Radio. Every Thursday from 8 - 10pm Please tune in each week 

Make sure you listen in and tell us what you think about our show. We can't wait to here your feedback. 

Thursday, February 21, 2013

The debut of our radio show on GeeQue Palace Radio

Tonight was our return to radio, the debut of "Reality and Relationships" on GeeQue Palace radio. If you missed our show enjoy. 


We will feature one couple weekly in our "FB Couple of the Week" segment. Stop by our page Like our page and tell us why we should pick you. 
Please tune in each week and tell a friend. 
Also remember to check out our new poetic anthology "Word Play 2, The Foundation of Soul" Drops March 5th.
You can also pick up a copy of "From Gigolo to Jesus" my personal memoir on how I change my life from Whore to Loving Husband and Man of God

Wednesday, February 20, 2013

We are officially back on the air Thurs. 2.21.13 "REALITY AND RELATIONSHIPS"

Are Monogamous Relationships Still Realistic? 

Tune in tomorrow to "REALITY AND RELATIONSHIPS" Tiffany Braxton Belvin and I are going to try to answer that question and any other questions you have. Out show debuts tomorrow and we are going to make it happen. Thursday from 8-10 est, log in from your PC to listen to the show live or use the call in number - 646 200 3838 press 1 to come on the air to ask your question or tell us what you think or you can remain online to listen to the show from your phone. I hope to have all of you on in the chat room and let's keep it 100% about Are Monogamous Relationships Still Realistic? Please tune in we would love the support.

Saturday, February 2, 2013

BIG NEWS.. The reason why you have seen us here.

Hello everyone. I know its been a little while since Tiff and I have posted anything here on our blog concerning relationships. Well, there is a reason for that. Drum Roll Please!!!!!!

Starting February 21, from 8-10pm Tiff and I are returning to the radio waves as radio co-host on our new radio show "Reality and Relationships" 

When Black Love Radio ended we thought we weren't going to get back to doing what we loved and here the Lord blessed with another opportunity. Every Thursday night we will tackle relationships from various points. Always keeping it real as we did in the past. We plan on having great guest and great topics. Make sure you tune in. Please tell a friend and have them tell a friend. Its going to be a blast. 

Please support this show well as all the other great shows GEEQUE PALACE has to offer.