In a Godly marriage attacks are going to come in many forms. Spiritual and personal attacks will test the faith and reolve of any marriage. The two of you have to turn to God together and ride out the rough waves. Cling to God and each other and wait on the Lord to whisper the answers to one or both of you. Trust your faith its in place for a reason. God loves everyone and smiles on marriages.
1 Corinthians 11:11-12 (NIV) 11 Nevertheless, in the Lord woman is not independent of man, nor is man independent of woman. 12 For as woman came from man, so also man is born of woman. But everything comes from God.